Welcome to your Sacred Healing Journey
"Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it."
The truth about healing the self from the inside out is we must first find where we've been hurt in order to forgive it all. Or as Rumi so beautifully puts we must find the barriers we've built against love. Find them not just for the sake of finding but find them so we can figure out how and why they went up in the first place…and then bash them down to LET LOVE IN. The time our dads didn't show up to our ballet recital or didn't call on our birthday or flat out didn't show up for us at all planted a seed in our hearts as little girls. That little seed of injustice committed against us was watered over the course of our lives in our relationships with our dads. So with every disappointment, every let down, every absence and every display of his selfishness, that little seed grew. What grew? You know, sister. Bitterness, resentment, distrust, fear, anger, sadness, desperation for love, guilt, shame, regret, lying, low self esteem, unworthiness have grown and it's time to take them down at the root.
You deserve better than war within your heart and a life of violence against yourself.
You may have just gotten out of a relationship and are feeling broken-hearted, are currently in a relationship you know isn't healthy or had a light bulb go off that you're in a pattern, dating the wrong guys over and over again and don't know how to get out.
Wherever you are on the journey of acknowledging father wounds, know that if you're reading these words, you are in the right place at the right time. Know that you've been prayed for before you signed up. I've been waiting you for you, honey girl.
You're here because you're ready.
Because you're stronger than you think. Because it is time to heal.
This course is for you if you've been feeling:
Mad at men
Desperate for attention and validation
Having trouble controlling behaviors like eating, exercising, drinking, internet browsing
Almost unbearable loneliness when you're single
You can't remember the last time you were single for a significant period
Regret about physical things you've done with men
Embarrassed of men you've dated/ that you're dating "beneath" you
Like you find yourself saving men, helping them or all out strapping them to your back
Have been accused of having a savior complex
Have struggled with self worth
Have been mad at men, can't get them to commit or feel dissatisfied in general with your dating history
Can't stick to commitments you make to yourself about sex or dating
--i.e. No sex till marriage, no sex till after commitment, I'm taking this year off of dating to focus on me
It's time for your breakthrough. We have to heal the broken little girl inside so we can be whole, free, joy filled, magnificent women who are unafraid to walk in their callings.
"Your energy, your mental health, your spirit is a puzzle piece heading out into the universe looking for a match." --In Search of My Father
The bad news: Whatever you don't heal and face within yourself will find its match. The good news: the opposite is also true.